{"id":10781,"date":"2025-12-07T07:03:23","date_gmt":"2025-12-07T07:03:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/?p=10781"},"modified":"2025-12-07T07:03:24","modified_gmt":"2025-12-07T07:03:24","slug":"signs-your-child-is-looking-for-emotional-connection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/signs-your-child-is-looking-for-emotional-connection\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y con b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y con c\u00e1i \u0111ang khao kh\u00e1t s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m ch\u00fang l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft khi con b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1i k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u tinh t\u1ebf v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 tinh t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y con b\u1ea1n \u0111ang khao kh\u00e1t k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \"h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u\" th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch v\u1ee5ng v\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \"Con c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. Kh\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng m\u1eddi: Nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>N\u00f3 tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o:<\/strong>&nbsp;B\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, v\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f2i \u0103n v\u1eb7t, m\u00e1ch l\u1ebbo v\u1ec1 anh ch\u1ecb em, ho\u1eb7c cho b\u1ea1n xem m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c v\u1ebd.&nbsp;<em>ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd<\/em>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m:<\/strong>&nbsp;H\u1ecd \u0111ang \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nhu c\u1ea7u k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i:<\/strong>&nbsp;\u201cKhi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00e3o t\u00f4i \u0111ang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 g\u1eedi t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u: \u2018K\u1ebft n\u1ed1i! K\u1ebft n\u1ed1i!\u2019\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. B\u00f3ng T\u1ed1i D\u00ednh B\u00e1m: S\u1ef1 Tr\u1edf L\u1ea1i Hay S\u1ef1 Ph\u1ee5 Thu\u1ed9c?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>N\u00f3 tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o:<\/strong>&nbsp;M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 th\u1eaft d\u00e2y gi\u00e0y, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ebf \u0111i kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i, ho\u1eb7c lu\u00f4n qu\u1ea5n qu\u00fdt b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong b\u1ebfp. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n \u0111i v\u1ec7 sinh b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean g\u1eb7p s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m:<\/strong>&nbsp;H\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng ho\u1eb7c th\u1ee5t l\u00f9i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nhu c\u1ea7u k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i:<\/strong>&nbsp;\u201cEm c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an. Em mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a anh m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Xin h\u00e3y ch\u0103m s\u00f3c em nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch anh t\u1eebng l\u00e0m; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn em c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5m n\u00fat: T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd theo c\u00e1ch ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>N\u00f3 tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o:<\/strong>&nbsp;S\u1ef1 ganh \u0111ua gi\u1eefa anh ch\u1ecb em gia t\u0103ng. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb em ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n, l\u00e0m b\u1eeba b\u1ed9n sau khi b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p, ho\u1eb7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb \"c\u1ea5m k\u1ef5\".<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m:<\/strong>&nbsp;H\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nhu c\u1ea7u k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i:<\/strong>&nbsp;\u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng la h\u00e9t \u2014 v\u00ec n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, v\u1eabn t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ecb ph\u1edbt l\u1edd.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"559\" src=\"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-3-1024x559.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10805\" srcset=\"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-3-1024x559.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-3-300x164.jpg 300w, https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-3-768x419.jpg 768w, https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-3-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-3.jpg 1408w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi K\u1ec3 Chuy\u1ec7n V\u00f4 T\u1eadn: Nh\u1eefng Suy T\u01b0 Lang Thang &amp; Nh\u1eefng C\u00e2u H\u1ecfi L\u1edbn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>N\u00f3 tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o:<\/strong>&nbsp;Con b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n d\u00e0i, chi ti\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ho\u1eb7c th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m:<\/strong>&nbsp;H\u1ecd \u0111ang tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u00e1nh \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 (nh\u01b0 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nhu c\u1ea7u k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i:<\/strong>&nbsp;\u201cT\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0 tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Xin h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn t\u00f4i \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5. B\u1ecdt bi\u1ec3n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac: Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>N\u00f3 tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o:<\/strong>&nbsp;B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean con b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1u g\u1eaft v\u00ec nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t. T\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a con d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m:<\/strong>&nbsp;H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nhu c\u1ea7u k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i:<\/strong>&nbsp;\u201cT\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh khi b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3. T\u00f4i \u0111ang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd n\u00e0y v\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd n\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>6. L\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o Kh\u00e1ng chi\u1ebfn: Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>N\u00f3 tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o:<\/strong>&nbsp;M\u1ecdi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n\u2014\u0111eo gi\u00e0y v\u00e0o, \u0103n rau\u2014\u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u00fd ch\u00ed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m:<\/strong>&nbsp;H\u1ecd \u0111ang t\u1ecf ra c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Nhu c\u1ea7u k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i:<\/strong>&nbsp;T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. C\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i 'kh\u00f4ng'. T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i.&nbsp;<em>tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/em>&nbsp;B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn cho t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u1edf c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9i.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"585\" src=\"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-2-1024x585.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10804\" srcset=\"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-2-1024x585.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-2-300x171.jpg 300w, https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-2-768x439.jpg 768w, https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-2-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Signs-Your-Child-Is-Looking-for-Emotional-Connection-2.jpg 1344w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec: T\u00e1i k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea5c b\u00ean con, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y \"c\u1ed1c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i\" c\u1ee7a con b\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, t\u1eadp trung \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. T\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \"\u00c1nh n\u1eafng\" v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng d\u00e0nh ra h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh 10-15 ph\u00fat ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nhau. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cTh\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t\u201d. H\u00e3y th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o: \u201cM\u1eb9 s\u1ebd t\u1eaft \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i trong 10 ph\u00fat t\u1edbi. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con th\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ch\u01a1i g\u00ec nh\u1ec9?\u201d S\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e0y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. K\u1ebft n\u1ed1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Khi con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh ho\u1eb7c h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3, h\u00e3y c\u00fai xu\u1ed1ng ngang t\u1ea7m v\u1edbi con, nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eaft con v\u00e0 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o vai con. N\u00f3i: \u201cCon tr\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n. M\u1eb9\/B\u1ed1 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n quy t\u1eafc trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. T\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a th\u00f3i quen<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Th\u00f3i quen l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00e1i \u00f4m \u1ea5m \u00e1p tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ra kh\u1ecfi gi\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00e1i v\u1ed7 tay ch\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc, b\u00e0i h\u00e1t vui nh\u1ed9n trong l\u00fac \u0111\u00e1nh r\u0103ng, c\u00e1i \u00f4m v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7. Nh\u1eefng nghi th\u1ee9c nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o n\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. Nh\u1eadn ra nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eb1ng sau h\u00e0nh vi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Khi con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u00e1m t\u1eed, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ea9m ph\u00e1n. H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh,&nbsp;<strong>\u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0&nbsp;<\/strong><em><strong>c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/strong><\/em><strong>&nbsp;ho\u1eb7c&nbsp;<\/strong><em><strong>c\u1ea7n<\/strong><\/em><strong>&nbsp;\"\u0110\u1eb1ng sau h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec?\"<\/strong>&nbsp;Thay v\u00ec ngh\u0129 \"Anh \u1ea5y \u0111ang c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n t\u00f4i\", h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \"Anh \u1ea5y \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\". S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n trong suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t sang \u0111\u1ea7y l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5. S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1eadt l\u00fd nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m d\u00e0i, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i xoa l\u01b0ng, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 \u00f4m con s\u00e1t v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng oxytocin (hormone g\u1eafn k\u1ebft) trong c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m d\u1ecbu \u0111i kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. \u0110\u00f4i khi, s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u1eddi n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>6. Ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Khi con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3c ho\u1eb7c gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i, \u201cD\u1eebng kh\u00f3c \u0111i,\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201c\u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n l\u1edbn,\u201d h\u00e3y th\u1eed n\u00f3i, \u201cM\u1eb9\/B\u1ed1 th\u1ea5y con \u0111ang r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p bu\u1ed3n m\u00e0. M\u1eb9\/B\u1ed1 lu\u00f4n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y b\u00ean con.\u201d Vi\u1ec7c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con gi\u00fap con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i, ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn t\u1eeb \u201cCon t\u00f4i \u0111ang g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho t\u00f4i\u201d sang \u201c<strong>Con t\u00f4i l\u00e0&nbsp;<\/strong><em><strong>c\u00f3<\/strong><\/em><strong>&nbsp;m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n,<\/strong>\u201cB\u1ea1n m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn lo\u1ea1i k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 tin c\u1eady, l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e2u d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.\u201d<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y con c\u00e1i \u0111ang khao kh\u00e1t s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m ch\u00fang l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap\u2026<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10803,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10781","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10781","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10781"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10781\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10807,"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10781\/revisions\/10807"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10803"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10781"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10781"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brillianaire.sg\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10781"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}